Atlanta.
Betty was born in Andrew’s Chapel, Georgia, eight miles east of Thomaston, on June 19, 1924.
She was the daughter of Samuel Artis Blount and Arthur Velma Barner of Andrew’s Chapel.
When Betty was in the first grade the family moved to Thomaston. Betty loved to share that the
very fondest of her childhood memories was of walking from her Thomaston home to school
with her older sister, Jackie: “I thought that half-mile journey was at least five miles!”
Betty graduated from R. E. Lee High School in 1941. Piano was her passion and talent, and she
could type like no other person. She went to work at the Citizens & Southern Bank later that
year as Secretary to the Bank President. On August 23rd, 1946, in Clayton, Georgia, Betty
married Charles Preston Stephens from The Rock, Georgia, who had returned home from Naval
action in the Pacific less than a year earlier. The job that would change their lives forever had
been offered to Press only a few months before the wedding; he joined the Coca-Cola Export
Corporation as a quality control chemist and the young couple packed their bags and moved to
Panama. As Press worked to establish a Coca-Cola office, Betty worked in the lock control
room of the Panama Canal.
Over the next sixteen years Betty and Press moved from Panama to Brazil, to Chile, to Peru, and
finally to Caracas, Venezuela. They raised three children along the way, each time moving into a
home Betty would later describe as “the house that Coke built,” no matter which country they
were in. With patience and elegance, in each of those places, she worked hard to host Coca-Cola
businessmen from all over the world while Press helped facilitate production and distribution of
the famed soft drink across Latin America and the Caribbean.
Betty was the organist and choir director for every American Church in each of those Latin
American places. She brought a level of excellence and sophistication to the music programming
in those sanctuaries the likes of which congregants had never heard or seen before. All three
children, as a result of Betty’s passion for high quality music, sang in every choir at every age.
Returning to the United States in 1961, the Stephens family lived first in Dobbs Ferry, New
York, then in Darien, Connecticut. Press commuted each day to New York City when he wasn’t
traveling overseas. Betty loved her home in “Tokeneke” near the Connecticut shore, and as
she had done in Latin America, she hosted Coca-Cola visitors from all over the world. The guest
room was indeed a “guest room,” and was in use more than just a few days and nights every
month. Betty was just as proud, though, of her work as organist and choir director at the Darien
Methodist Church. She spent hours each day practicing preludes and postludes for Sunday
services. Then, in 1974, two years before Press’s retirement from Coke, after all three
children had left “the nest” in Darien and the Coca-Cola Company had consolidated all offices in
Atlanta, Betty and Press moved to Buckhead where Betty resided until her death.
In addition to being a committed member of American and Methodist churches across the
hemisphere, Betty was a Cub Scout and Boy Scout volunteer in Caracas; she led the
Community Concert Association in Darien; she joined the Board of Directors of the fledgling
Center of Puppetry Arts in Atlanta becoming one of the longest serving Board members in their
history; she was a longtime Board member of the Georgian Chamber Players; was a founder
of the Friends of Music at Peachtree Road United Methodist Church; and she worked for the
Piedmont Hospital Women's Auxiliary for decades. Her philanthropy benefitted the Atlanta
Symphony Orchestra, the Georgian Chamber Players, the High Museum of Art, Peachtree Road
United Methodist Church, The Upson Historical Society, and the Georgia Land Trust, just to
name a few.
After Press’s death in 1993, Betty took over supervision of the Stephens family real estate in
The Rock, Georgia, traveling to Upson County from Atlanta each week to meet with foresters,
visit family cemeteries, and care for her beloved pond and blueberry bushes. She renovated the
1861 Stephens “homeplace” on The Rock Road and maintained the Stephens house in
Thomaston. In 2011, at the age of 87, along with her three children, she formed The
Stephens Family Investment Company, LP, to structure the timber-growing business at The
Rock. It was always her intent, as it was Press’s, to preserve their ancestral family land and
nurture its agricultural and environmental values into perpetuity.
Betty was greatly loved for her cosmopolitan flair and her kindness and generosity which she
combined with Georgia-red-clay strength and endurance. Her love of traveling, theatre, music,
art and literature was matched only by her devotion to her husband, to her children and to her
grandchildren. Betty reveled in taking family members, especially grandchildren, on trips to
either New York City, or abroad. On more than one occasion during her later years she treated
her entire family to extraordinary excursions in Africa and in Europe. She was the quintessential
traveler declaring she would carry her own bag, thank you, until the time came when she simply
couldn’t take any more trips at all.
Betty was preceded in death by her husband, Charles Preston Stephens, her sisters Dove, Jackie
and Doris, her brother Billy, and her parents. She is survived by her brother, Sam; her children,
William Powell Stephens (Connie), Charles Preston Stephens, Jr. (Shirley), and Sally Elizabeth
Stephens Westmoreland (Melvin); and her grandchildren, Matthews Stephens Westmoreland,
Preston Powell Westmoreland, Elizabeth Marie Westmoreland, and Mariah Louise Stephens.
A visitation will take place from 5:00 pm to 7:00 pm Friday evening January 10th at Spring Hill
Chapel, 1020 Spring Street NW, Atlanta. Funeral services will be held at 11:00 am on Saturday,
January 11th at Peachtree Road United Methodist Church, 3180 Peachtree Road, Atlanta, with
Rev. Bill Britt officiating. Saturday afternoon, following the funeral service, Betty will be buried
in The Rock United Methodist Church Cemetery, The Rock, Georgia, with Rev. B
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